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		<title>By: kaishudo</title>
		<link>http://christopherlking.com/blog/2008/05/02/will-all-the-good-men-please-stand-up/comment-page-1/#comment-41</link>
		<dc:creator>kaishudo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 19:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Think this just might be my longest comment yet. If I make someone mad I apologize in advance.

These are the things that &#039;irk&#039; me:
(1) If you have the blessing to have a child or children, understand that being a father is more than just making sure that you go to work everyday. Spend time with them, and by spending time I do not mean sitting on the couch with them watching TV. I was fortunate enough to grow up with a daddy who was a big kid himself.  We played football, kickball, baseball, went fishing, and camping (I&#039;m a girl, but I loved every minute of it).  How often do you see Daddies outside tossing the ball with their children?

(2) Guys expect their women to trust them to go to the game with their friends alone.  Some of us would love to go with you but we are not asked. Some of us are expected to go and often get dragged along - if she isn&#039;t into sports don&#039;t make her go.  Back to the original sentence - if you expect the trust to go out alone with you&#039;re friends you should allow her the same trust.

(3) Support her dreams, likes, etc.  A woman who feels like the only parts of her that you are interested in are sexual and what she can do for you, doesn&#039;t really look to stay in the relationship... what I&#039;m trying to say here is DON&#039;T TAKE HER FOR GRANTED.

(4) If you must look at another woman in her presence don&#039;t be so damn obvious about it. Nothing will damage your relationship more than her thinking that you are looking.  women want to be the only one he has eyes for.

(5) If she has put on weight or isn&#039;t as you as she once was watch how you make those comments.  Don&#039;t say &#039;Baby you&#039;re still sexy even though you haven&#039;t lost the baby weight.&#039;

(6) Continue to date even after you have her.  Women are romantic creatures.  We love cards for no reason. Watch a chick flick - it won&#039;t kill you.

(8) You are not our Daddy.  Though you are the proverbial head of the house, we don&#039;t need you to raise us or dictate to us.  This is a partnership - 100 percent given on both sides is the only way to do it.  Yet, we need to have input and we crave yours. Be at home mentally and physically.  

(7) If you cuddle, don&#039;t fondle.

(8) Even if you can&#039;t stand our mothers don&#039;t bad mouth her. Also do not say we are acting just like her and make it an insult.

Gonna stop I could go on forever. lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Think this just might be my longest comment yet. If I make someone mad I apologize in advance.</p>
<p>These are the things that &#8216;irk&#8217; me:<br />
(1) If you have the blessing to have a child or children, understand that being a father is more than just making sure that you go to work everyday. Spend time with them, and by spending time I do not mean sitting on the couch with them watching TV. I was fortunate enough to grow up with a daddy who was a big kid himself.  We played football, kickball, baseball, went fishing, and camping (I&#8217;m a girl, but I loved every minute of it).  How often do you see Daddies outside tossing the ball with their children?</p>
<p>(2) Guys expect their women to trust them to go to the game with their friends alone.  Some of us would love to go with you but we are not asked. Some of us are expected to go and often get dragged along &#8211; if she isn&#8217;t into sports don&#8217;t make her go.  Back to the original sentence &#8211; if you expect the trust to go out alone with you&#8217;re friends you should allow her the same trust.</p>
<p>(3) Support her dreams, likes, etc.  A woman who feels like the only parts of her that you are interested in are sexual and what she can do for you, doesn&#8217;t really look to stay in the relationship&#8230; what I&#8217;m trying to say here is DON&#8217;T TAKE HER FOR GRANTED.</p>
<p>(4) If you must look at another woman in her presence don&#8217;t be so damn obvious about it. Nothing will damage your relationship more than her thinking that you are looking.  women want to be the only one he has eyes for.</p>
<p>(5) If she has put on weight or isn&#8217;t as you as she once was watch how you make those comments.  Don&#8217;t say &#8216;Baby you&#8217;re still sexy even though you haven&#8217;t lost the baby weight.&#8217;</p>
<p>(6) Continue to date even after you have her.  Women are romantic creatures.  We love cards for no reason. Watch a chick flick &#8211; it won&#8217;t kill you.</p>
<p>(8) You are not our Daddy.  Though you are the proverbial head of the house, we don&#8217;t need you to raise us or dictate to us.  This is a partnership &#8211; 100 percent given on both sides is the only way to do it.  Yet, we need to have input and we crave yours. Be at home mentally and physically.  </p>
<p>(7) If you cuddle, don&#8217;t fondle.</p>
<p>(8) Even if you can&#8217;t stand our mothers don&#8217;t bad mouth her. Also do not say we are acting just like her and make it an insult.</p>
<p>Gonna stop I could go on forever. lol</p>
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		<title>By: TKIF!</title>
		<link>http://christopherlking.com/blog/2008/05/02/will-all-the-good-men-please-stand-up/comment-page-1/#comment-39</link>
		<dc:creator>TKIF!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 May 2008 02:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Once again CLK you hit it on point. And I&#039;m impressed with your spanish. lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once again CLK you hit it on point. And I&#8217;m impressed with your spanish. lol</p>
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